[rating:2]
(San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2010)
272 pgs.
For a student of leadership, any book by Warren Bennis is worth perusing. Bennis has been described as the dean of leadership theorists. He has been involved in leadership and group theory for many decades. He is the founding chairman of the University of California’s Leadership Institute and the author of thirty books. Ones I have read include: Leaders: Strategies for Taking Charge (1985), On Becoming a Leader (1989), Why Leaders Can’t Lead (1989), Reinventing Leadership (1995), and Geeks and Geezers (2002). At the age of 85, Bennis wrote this book as a memoir as well as a collection of insights he has gleaned about leadership throughout his distinguished career. He notes that he did not want to write a mind-numbing, exhaustive tome chronicling every aspect of his life beginning with his great grandparents. Rather, he hoped that when people finished reading they would wish they knew more about him (xii). So, this book highlights some key themes and events in Bennis’s life and draws out some of his most compelling insights gained from a life studying leadership.
One of his first insights relates to stories. He notes: “Once you know that deftly shaped stories compel an audience as nothing else does, you can’t stop telling them” (ix). He also theorizes: “All of us present ourselves to the world through the stories we invent about ourselves, consciously or not” (x). He adds: “I had devised a story I could star in. I’ve been doing much of the same thing ever since” (xi). This is a telling precursor to what follows in the book. Bennis is an erudite, liberally trained scholar who has enjoyed various international experiences and known many famous people. Consequently he is a great story teller. He can also be quite candid. Through his memoir, we are taken on a life-long journey as Bennis pursues interesting opportunities and experiences.
Personally, as someone who enjoys biographies as well as leadership books, I found his personal experiences to detract more than support his focus on leadership. He readily acknowledges he has been profoundly lucky throughout his life. He has been blessed to have powerful people offer to mentor him and to give him unique opportunities to teach and write. Yet we know that there is more than luck involved. Clearly he has a personality that ingratiates himself to others and attracts people to him. It would have been good to hear his musings on why so many people have wanted to help him throughout his life. Those would be some life skills worth learning!
On the negative side, Bennis reveals he has been divorced three times (at least that is how many times he acknowledges in his book). One always wonders about a leadership expert who is able to maintain numerous friendships and undertake difficult assignments but habitually fails at marriage. Especially is this so when he cites his own finding of top CEOs that every one of them was still married to their first spouse (181). He mentions this as “Our most unexpected and least useful discovery.” In light of his own reputation as a leader, it would have been good to hear his analysis on why he failed in this important area of his life. He all but admits the cause when he confesses after his third divorce: “I realized I didn’t want to give up my hedonistic lifestyle” (120). On two occasions in his life, he undertook an assignment in London while leaving a wife behind that he eventually divorced. Bennis also notes that when his father’s health failed, his mother asked him to return home from college to help his father. Bennis confessed: “If I went back, I knew my life would be hard, sad, and ordinary” (40). Bennis feels that his upbringing had little to do with the man he became. He rarely mentions his parents and siblings and then, almost never in a positive light. Perhaps this is why he suggests that “the roles we play in our lives have more to do with our successes than our personal histories” (15). He suggests that when people are placed in leadership roles, they often rise to the occasion because more is expected of them.
Bennis also acknowledges that while he was writing and teaching on leadership in various prestigious schools, he had not actually led anything. So, he eventually took a role as an academic VP and then as president of the University of Cincinnati. While he did lead his school into the state system which was a monumental success, he eventually learned he did not have the stomach for actually leading. After his presidency he took a year to live on a houseboat in San Francisco and indulged in every New Age exercise he could. So, unlike many leadership books written by successful businesspeople, politicians or coaches, Bennis’s primary contribution is not in reflecting on his own success as a practitioner but using his expert observation skills to analyze other leaders over several decades.
He does have some good observations. He notes that “The leader of a group must never get overly involved with its sickest member . . . the leader who is hijacked by extreme pathology pays a terrible price” (60). He also emphasizes the importance of “proximity.” He claims: “Proximity leads to access, which leads to power. To have a seat at the table, you first have to be in the room” (92). He also observes the importance of organizational culture. He confesses after his unsuccessful tenure at the University of Buffalo: “We forgot that no established organization is a blank canvass” (119). Bennis also claims timing can be as important as skill and determination. He suggests: “Being born too late or too early to take advantage of a historic opportunity is one of a thousand things that can go wrong and lead to a life of frustration, even despair” (204).
Interestingly, Bennis, who is Jewish, relates how an early mentor “. . . hoped I would be inspired by his example to take the Lord as my personal savior” (38). Bennis, unfortunately, chose not to. Instead he eventually enlisted a Buddhist spiritual guide and engaged in a wide assortment of New Age techniques as well as psychoanalysis to find himself.
Warren Bennis is a highly regarded leadership expert and therefore I am always interested to hear what he has to say. Having read his memoir, I must confess to being somewhat disappointed. He seems like a self-indulging, charismatic person who has been on a personal pilgrimage throughout his life to study leaders and organizations but he is not someone who has generally practiced a lot of his leadership insights. Most people will not be surrounded by influential friends as well as a team of assistants to take care of them as they write and teach as Bennis has been and therefore most people will not identify with his particular journey. While he does share some interesting observations, if you are looking for your next book that will enlighten you on practical aspects of leadership, I would suggest you look to some of the other books presently available.