In times of turmoil we can become so concerned with who is against us that we overlook those who have chosen to remain at our side.
While it is inevitable that some of your friends and colleagues will eventually disappoint you, one of the great rewards of leadership is the relationship of trust you can build with people over time. Even as David’s own son and long-time colleagues were plotting behind his back, there were others who were unshakably loyal to him, just as they had always been.
Zadok the priest was always steadfast in his zeal for God and for King David. Benaiah was a fearless warrior who had won renown among the mighty men of his day not only for his military prowess, but also for his loyalty. Nathan, the wise, old prophet had dared to challenge the king when he sinned, but he always remained firmly supportive of God’s anointed. Likewise the Mighty Men who had helped David to achieve the throne, were steadfast in their commitment to him throughout their days. One could only wish to have a fraction as many supportive friends as David enjoyed!
While it might have seemed that his entire kingdom was deserting him, the fact was that David still had strong allies. We would do well to also take into account those who continue to be our steadfast friends and supporters.