It is human nature to be concerned about other people’s shortcomings. After all, they are so obvious. To make matters worse, other people’s faults can be truly annoying. Ultimately, however, we cannot change people, despite our heroic efforts. People must choose to change themselves.
What is important is that we take heed to ourselves. No one can change us. Only we can ensure that we become everything God intended. Likewise we must give serious, regular attention to doctrine. That is, the teachings of Scripture. All the truth in the world will not do us one ounce of good if we are unfamiliar with it. This will involve reading and study. It may involve declining to give our attention to less important matters. Giving attention to ourselves and to doctrine comes at a price.
Yet, as with all good things in the Christian life, when we heed God’s word, it brings blessing to more than just us. When we focus on God’s word, we draw other people’s attention to it as well. When we make doctrine a priority in our life, those around us give it greater attention in theirs. When we strive for godliness, others are encouraged to join us in our pursuit. Having the correct priorities is the key to achieving God’s purposes in our life.