Children are a gift from God. Unfortunately, not all children bring joy to their parents! Wise children live their lives with discretion. They choose their words carefully. They recognize what is important and what is trivial. They conduct their relationships prudently. They are quick to forgive wrongs done to them so they keep their relationships well tended and healthy. They work hard. They steer clear of hasty and foolish decisions. They do not spend their time associating with fools. Such people can make their parents proud!
Wise people also recognize the value of maintaining a healthy relationship with their parents. At times this requires immense wisdom. Not all parents are good, or loving, or lovable. Some parents have been negligent or self-centered or abusive. The easiest thing to do in such cases would appear to be to reject such disgraceful parents. But wise children choose to be a blessing to their parents regardless of how they treated them. Such people bring joy to their elders. Wise children may have to take the high road and give to those from whom they have received little. But this is the path of wisdom.
Other children live only for themselves. They act as if their actions affect no one but them. As a result they bring grief to their parents. Such people may reject the values that were passed on to them. They may live in a manner that tarnishes their family’s reputation and good name. Many tears have been shed by mothers whose offspring are fools. How tragic to live one’s life with no regard to the pain we cause those who love us the most. So how do your parents currently view the way you are living? Have you brought a smile or a tear to their faces today?