Good leadership is a blessing to people. When a nation or company or church or family is led well, everyone benefits.
Unfortunately there are people who hold leadership positions but who do not rise to the level of their office. Leadership is for mature people! It is for people who act responsibly and who handle situations as mature adults. It is not for those with thin skins and uncontrolled egos. It is not intended for those who allow their emotions to override their judgment.
Likewise, leadership positions are for those who do the right thing, at the right time. Some people abuse their positions. They indulge in the benefits without fully embracing the responsibilities. They “feast” in the mornings when they should be planning and working. When the time is ripe to be productive, they squander their days in meeting their own needs, rather than the needs of their organization or people. How tragic to be led by self-indulgent people!
If you are leading, there are times when it is appropriate to care for yourself and your personal needs. But there are other times when you must be found at your post, doing what only you, as the leader, can do.