Just as there is clear evidence that reveals whether or not we are disciples of Jesus. So there are tale tell signs that we are not. One of the sinful behaviors most damning to those who claim to be Christians is when they hate their brother. Scripture is clear: you cannot hold bitterness and hatred against your brother or sister and yet truly have the heart of Christ. It’s impossible.
Jesus laid His life down for people who were mocking Him, spitting in His face, and nailing Him to a cross. Despite how people treated Him, Jesus loved and forgave them. You cannot have Him residing within you and yet refuse to forgive someone who has offended you.
Tragically, unforgiveness is one of the most common sins in the church today. God’s people are rife with anger, bitterness, and hatred toward one another. People claiming to be Christians regularly explain how they “can’t” or “won’t” forgive someone for what they have done. Beware! The apostle John claimed one of the clearest signs that someone did not belong to Christ was an unwillingness to forgive others.
Is there anyone in your life today who you have refused to thoroughly, completely, and wholeheartedly, forgive?