God wants things to go well with you! It is in His heart to bless you. He loves you infinitely. But God loves you too much to bless you on your terms. It must be on His.
The good news is that God has clearly spelled out what He is looking for from you. He has told us how to treat our spouse. He has instructed us on how to raise our children. He has given guidelines on ways to treat our colleagues and staff. He has stated His expectations on how we are to relate to friends and people we encounter. He has also given ample instruction on how to handle our money and possessions. The Bible is filled with divine wisdom that leads to experiencing the life God intends for us. The question is: how well do we know those guidelines? How prominently do we keep them before us? Obviously we cannot heed something we do not know.
Most significantly, are we relentlessly and wholeheartedly obeying what we know? If God is not currently blessing your efforts, would it not behoove you to review His standards and expectations? Audit those things you know God has said to you and contrast that with what you are doing. Life is too brief and difficult to live it apart from God’s manifest blessing.