Few things are as seductive as flattery. That’s because we can all be susceptible to having our egos stroked. It is enjoyable to be told we are doing a great job. People naturally want to feel appreciated. Because of this, we must beware the flatterer.
Flatterers are people who praise you insincerely. They shower you with compliments, not because they believe what they are saying, but because they want something from you. Unfortunately, people can allow themselves to be manipulated in exchange for cheap trinkets of praise.
Leaders must particularly guard themselves from the flatterer. While it is nice to be told we are doing a stellar job, it is far more important that we be told the truth. Flatterers use words cheaply, not wisely. They shower you with empty chatter that bring harm rather than good. As delightful as it may seem to bask in others’ praise, to do so is to play with fire. Beware the one who constantly compliments you. Don’t let your guard down or your senses be dulled. You may be in far more danger from the flatterer than the one who rebukes you. If you are susceptible to flattery, examine your heart. Why is it you are addicted to the praise of others?