People don’t always want to hear the truth! In fact, some may respond angrily and defensively if you are honest with them. As a result, it is tempting to tell people what they want to hear as opposed to what they need to be told. To do so is to be a coward.
The true friend and counselor is the one who always strives to give the correct answer to the one who enquires. This requires wisdom, careful thought, accumulated knowledge, and courage! At times we can agonize over whether to tell the truth or not. What if we hurt someone’s feelings? What if the person becomes angry or rejects us? What if we are misunderstood, or wrong?
The kindest thing we can do for people is to tell them the truth. To give them the right answer. To do so is like giving them a kiss. It blesses and encourages them. When you are known as someone who gives correct answers, you will regularly be sought out and consulted with by others. You will become a trusted advisor. Time with you will be prized.
What is the quality of answers you have been giving to others? Are they the caliber of response that compels people to come back to ask more of you later?