It did not take long for the woman at the well to realize she was not having a normal conversation. Expecting racism or condescension, she was unprepared for the way Jesus treated her.
In modern society, there are certain protocols people follow. We don’t discuss certain topics. We don’t ask particular questions. We stay on the surface and play it safe.
Jesus often scandalized and surprised people when they talked with Him. He did the unexpected. He didn’t simply follow the script. He caught people off guard. He didn’t do this to offend or to be different. He did it because he never wasted a conversation. He got to the point. He knew He had the words of life so He spent sparse time on small talk.
Jesus also clearly was not a racist! Or a chauvinist. Or someone who self righteously condemned others. He was someone who cared. He took a great interest in people. He was never too busy. And, as a result, He left a host of grateful, transformed people in His wake.